Weekend Links

“If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor.”
– Archbishop Desmond Tutu

Hi darlings, another weekend, another batch of links to help combat Sunday Night Blues. Blog posts about Beyonce, New York City, and lipstick coming this week, plus some thoughts on body modification, unintentional five-year planning, and second hand shopping coming to a blog near you. I’m trying to flex my writing and creative muscles again after far too long a hiatus. Here are your links, let’s talk about creative droughts and social reform in the comments.

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First and foremost, the US news has been horrible this week. Just awful. The violence against black lives, the angry retaliation, the desperate, desperate need to build trust between communities fractured by decades and centuries of confrontation and animosity… Get involved. Volunteer with organizations that speak to you. For gods sake vote. Speak up. The only thing that is going to make a difference in changing an entire culture is by intentional action. Meanwhile, this piece on one of the shootings, is required reading.

Notable #girlgang moments from June, rounded up for your reading pleasure.

This tumblr find of the week highlights the glory and the crazy of the online make up fandom. Mostly the crazy. And bad spelling.

And speaking of makeup… (You have dive more into the digitized collection here.)

There’s always a story.

Great piece from Monkey See on the ridiculous standards of women in the public eye to be both ethereally and unnatural beautiful, and still seem approachable and (if you’re a heterosexual male, generally speaking) sexually attainable.

Tips on faking it till you make it.

I made these (ridiculously easy) “tacos” this week and the recipe gets the seal of approval.

Weekend Links

“Who I am on stage is very, very different to who I am in real life.”
-Beyonce

A lovely weekend capped with a Beyonce concert. Kittens, I am content will the world and all her denizens and not even the Sunday night blues can get me down.

Meanwhile I’m being a good little blogger and uploading/editing photos from all our recent escapades so my long-standing blog hiatus (or, shameful kitten neglect, depending on your point of view) will soon be over. Here are your links, tell me what you got up to this weekend!

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Bow. Down.

Dying.

Love them or hate them, they are good at marketing.

Who’s coming with me?!

No,YOU’RE crying.

The Toast has shut its doors (poor one out for the gal homies), but man did it go out with a bang.

And speaking of milestones, The Devil Wears Prada turned 10 this week. That’s all.

I loved this tribute to Bill Cunningham.

Preordering this

An interesting piece on how the “brand” of Britain might be affectd by leaving the EU–the focus is on the fashion industry, but I think it has implications across multiple industries.

And finally, both Jeff and I have been doing some very conscious “investment” shopping for both our wardrobes of late and I found this post on the always reliably hilarious Man Repeller a useful way to think about the trade offs we all must make in allocating our spend. I too have been a member of the mental trickery club in the past; we all have.

Weekend Links

“I would give the greatest sunset in the world for one sight of New York’s skyline.”
― Ayn Rand

Hi ducklings! Apologies for the lateness of the post but I’ve spent half a week in NYC on my first proper holiday of the year and only just got back. More updates to follow but in the meantime, jetlag!

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At least once a year RadioWest does an entire radio hour dedicated to best in books (picked by SLC resident experts) and it’s one of my favorite shows. It’s also made my GoodReads list spiral out of control, but such is life! Here’s this year’s summer episode.

The higher hair

Golly, it’s a minefield out here.

THIS IS NOT A DRILL.

An interesting personal piece on prayer for Ramadan.

A better investment than gold?

Anyone interested in a bit of nerd property shopping?

Or how about some medieval graffiti, always good for SDS clickbait!

I have a lot of thoughts on the Brexit vote, and am unsure whether or not to turn that into a blog post. In the meantime

Almost plausible, and frightening as a result.

So saddened to hear about the passing of this man.

Since it was Pride in NYC this weekend, this celebration of one year of marriage equality is perfectly apt. Work still to be done, but much to take stock of.

Weekend Links

“I can’t give you a sure-fire formula for success, but I can give you a formula for failure: try to please everybody all the time.”
― Herbert Bayard Swope

Another weekend, another batch of links for you, darlings, but I’m happy to report that distinct progress is being made in the relaxation department. Jeff and I went out for burgers before having a wander through Parsons Green (one of my favorite village-y areas of London) and spent time in the sun. Much needed. It was another busy week with a bit of hard work and heartache but ending on a high note, which makes up for a multitude of sins. Events were thrown in townhouses, penthouses were shown, really clever ways to preserve heritage buildings were debated. Naps are now required.

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Everything about this story is bizarre.

Language and crude comments warning, as this is a link to The Oatmeal, but I think this take on creativity is pretty accurate and I can relate to the need to “breathe in.”

Go. Go listen now.

Food for thought.

The Great and Good Roxane Gay and I apparently shared a childhood literary crush! (PS, her recent NYT piece is pretty good good…)

Meanwhile, The Everygirl has some good ideas about things we should break up w

Dear home nation, please, please get it together and have some real political discourse about the challenge the country faces in this election season. People are quite literally dying

Weekend Links

“Ah! There is nothing like staying at home, for real comfort.”
― Jane Austen

Kittens, I am bad at holidays. Truly, bafflingly bad. I check emails, I take calls from colleagues, you name it; I have a very hard time switching off. This has been something I’ve been working to improve this year and I’ve become better at switching off on weekends, but for some reason I have some solid, puritan-founded-America guilt about taking holidays still lingering. It’s very un-British, un-European.

Spare me the lectures, I know how bad this is for me, but it’s still a challenge. Part of the issue is that my work team is relatively small for the amount of assets we manage and when we are a man or woman down, it can affect the whole team pretty drastically. Also, my boss has to travel regularly and when he’s in the air and unavailable I’m the deputy of the department and lead contact for external parties meaning that I need to be more available that I did in my previous role. For my type-A brain, it’s a lethal combination. I’m working on it.

I took a couple of days off this week for my birthday and Jeff took Friday off to spend with me eating food and going to museums. Although I had a couple of incidents of logging in, I’ve mostly been able to put the phone down and relax (something else I’m bad at). The sun is out today so I’m off to get some more practice in. Enjoy your links and share your favorite snippets of the internet this week in the comments.

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Well, this is just bloody heartwarming.

Bad feminist moment, I prejudged this show as overly nostalgic and bad-retro without watching an episode. Then I gave it a go on Netflix and swiftly inhaled three straight seasons. Unabashedly female in viewpoint and subject matter ranging from political austerity, to the not-so-distant-past where plumbing was communal, and to class and the female experience across cultures. Learn from my fail and give it a shot!

I want to go to there!

We haven’t had an archaeology read in a while, let’s rectify.

Why not have a double shot with a side of London history!

Intimate portraits of  a president.

Humans…you beautiful bastards have done it again

The Great and Good Alle Connell, ladies and gentleman!

No, YOU’RE crying.

There’s a reason those Instagram posts look so good. Social media is fun, kids, but  it’s often very carefully managed and curated. Trust me, I work in marketing.

I’ve been linking to a number of pieces recently reporting on rape cases at my alma mater and how the unique (and in my opinion, thoroughly bad) relationship between law enforcement, campus offices, and honor code departments can have awful results. This is, of course, not limited to a single school. Another survivor in another public case spoke out this week, and her statement is well worth reading.

A great post at The Mary Sue about how the word “genuius” gets gendered in the music industry.

A Weekend in the Country

“It was a sweet view-sweet to the eye and the mind. English verdure, English culture, English comfort, seen under a sun bright, without being oppressive.”
― Jane Austen

This post needed to go up today because London has been in a rainy, gray fog for several days now–in defiance of both the appropriate season and the 30th celebration of my birth. Weather aside it’s been great as I’ve taken a short workweek and a break from almost all media to enjoy the aging process. However I could not continue to let photos of the first (and at the rate we’re going only) proper summer weekend of the year.

My friend who kindly invited us for New Year’s this year, even more kindly invited us back for a camping weekend. His family home is a working estate, complete with livestock and acres, that operates a farm shop, camping grounds, and restaurant in addition to being a family home. Both he and his partner are in the events and entertaining business (admittedly on a grand and international scale) and as you may imagine, they are exquisite hosts. They also have a seemingly endless supply of fun, funny, and interesting friends and spend a great deal of their scant free time organizing ways to spend time together. New Year’s Eve was a grown up and dog affair, this party was a mass of families with children–with dogs. This is Britain after all.

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The house is gorgeous and the family have spent a long time and a lot of investment in keeping it both up and properly in the family. Not all homes like this still survive with property intact and it’s a real testament to how much they love it that it’s still in their care.

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What’s a stately home without some sort of grand hall, I ask you?

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We might have slept in tents, but we dined in absolute style. This was seriously the most civilized meal arrangement you’ve ever witnessed: long table set up in the “summer garden” with a pretty much constant flow of food and beverages, all with interwar records playing in the background. Badminton was played, pups were frolicked with, and long hours were spent sitting in the sun discussing the Queen and other highly important topics. It’s was terribly British in the most lovely possible way.

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One of our hosts with one of the canines. His hairstyle made for required photography.

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The gentlemen enlisted the help of one of their private chefs for the cooking (don’t worry, he tucked in along with the rest of us) and the results were about as amazing as that suggests.

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Seriously, it was glorious.

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Did I mention there were dogs everywhere?

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A rousing and very chaotic game of rounders was played later in which were were injuries and several delays of play when pups absconded with the necessary equipment.

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Obligatory bonfires were also had.

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The next morning, another unbelievably civilized breakfast was taken with locally sourced bread, a special coffee machine was set up (again, in the garden) for those needing caffeine, and heaping amounts of a jam made from a rare breed of French strawberries that only last about a day once picked and so have to be eaten or made into something immediately. Of course it was. I raved about it so much the chef (who I actually have worked with on several events now and really love) gave me a pot that I lovingly cradled in my arms for the whole train ride home.

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After breakfast, farm chores.

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The family keep pigs, hundreds of chickens, ducks, geese, and guinea fowl. All the significant players are, of course named. The larger pig is Gertie, the lone guinea fowl is Cutherbert and he’s apparently a major bully in the farmyard.

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It was, as I’m sure you can tell, an absolutely smashing weekend!

It’s Happening

“At 50, everyone has the face he deserves.”
― George Orwell

I’ve written before about my general apathy towards getting older. I don’t see it as a bad thing and find too many attempts of people trying to maintain youth sliding into outright immaturity to be attractive. I also think that the physical pressure on woman to try and appear as young as possible for as long as possible annoying, exhausting, and a foregone conclusion in the battle with the clock and gravity. But I’d be lying if I said I didn’t look at the silver streak for and think, “And so it begins,” a little bit.
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My 30th birthday is but days away and the aging process has begun! My only complaint (besides my apparently inability to keep my camera orientation at the same setting for more than two photos) is that my genes didn’t put this silver streak front and center like Stacey London. Or Cruella de Vil. Honestly, Mother Nature, do a girl a solid and give her some dramatic impact!

Minion coterie, share! First signs of aging in you, your friends, or your family members that you noticed and why?

Weekend Links

“I’d be quite happy if I spent from Saturday night until Monday morning alone in my apartment. That’s how I refuel.” 
― Audrey Hepburn

I had high hopes for Saturday, kittens, but after some chores and basic housekeeping after a long week, I changed for the gym, sat down on the bed for a moment…and woke upa few hours later.

So, it’s been a tiring week. Here are your links, I’m planning on spending the rest of the weekend at an equally slow pace.

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You’re going to want to apply ice to that burn

A well written article about something I thought I’d never, ever find interesting in any way.

Instagram feed of the week.

Very into these changes.

In Mormon news, my pal Stephanie share a deeply personal speech she gave on how she inadvertently started a watershed moment in 21st century mormonism, and where she’s ended up.

A subject dear to my heart: lipstick.

I laughed, probably a little too much, at this since I haven’t been to the gym in oh-let’s-not-discuss-it-any-further. However, squats for cheese is something I can get behind.

A great post by the estimable Grace on apologetic language.

File under bad ass.

How I Spent My Christmas/New Year’s Vacation

“Nothing ever happens in the country.”
– The Moving Finger, Agatha Christie 

Yeah, yeah, it’s nearly June. But as we just returned to the manor for a kick off to summer, I’d be remiss if I didn’t share these photos rediscovered in the depths of my dropbox to give you the sense of both seasons in Rutland at its finest.

We spent the New Year at a friend’s country house with food, games, and inter-war music records in front of fires. Dogs abounded, a carousel of interesting people came and went, long walks were taken. Basically we stepped straight back into the 1930s and were sad to be obliged to resurface when it was over.

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Weekend Links

God made the country, and man made the town. 
~William Cowper, The Task

Happy weekend, kittens.

This week at work balance was semi-restored with the return of a boss from a week and a half of (well-deserved) holiday and the hiring of a permanent full-time PA. Never underestimate the power of good management and good help.

Meanwhile on the homefront, the weather has lurched decidedly into spring and though we didn’t achieve the heat of last weekend’s glamping adventure, the trees are now fully green and the sky is blue. Except for when it’s hailing, which actually happened only a week ago. The reason for the British stereotype of talking about the weather, my dears, is that there’s actually quite a bit to talk about. If you don’t like the current state of the thermometer, wait an hour.

We’re off to hunt for  a new barbecue joint and do some weekend market exploring before returning to the grind. Here are your links, and tell me what you’ve been up to in the comments!

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What a great art series!

Clickbait for SDS minions.

An inspiring story of a deep, deep friendship.

Fantastic piece by Barrie Hardyman on the power of revealing the plot twist.

The history of Kinfolk magazine I never knew I wanted to read.

Many, many Brits have asked me my opinion on the American election, to which my go-to response has become, “I live here now.” It’s important to find humor in this kind of political climate.

Alle Connell (formerly of xoVain, now at Revelist) is one of my favourite young beauty writers out there–go check her out wherever her work appears. When she left xoVain, I was genuinely saddened. However this new piece on eye shadow blending  and how to actually do it by Kim Carpluk might result in the crowning of a C.’s-Fave-Vainer award.

Not. Cool.

Profile of the man who manages to do exactly what it says on the tin. Or at least the title.

NOPE.