Weekend Links

“October extinguished itself in a rush of howling winds and driving rain and November arrived, cold as frozen iron, with hard frosts every morning and icy drafts that bit at exposed hands and faces.”
― J.K. Rowling, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix

It’s the first of November, everyone’s a bit confused as to where the year has gone, and we’ve turned on the heating for the first time. We are once again in that magical time of year where you can use your pipes to dry your laundry. Urban living, kittens!

In related news I finally replaced my winter coat (several years old) with a sleeker model, bought some ridiculously luxe smelling and seasonally appropriate candles, and picked up some slippers. I think cool weather has arrived. Even though the British weather is being, well, British and we’re having an odd, alternatively warm and cold weekend. I’m convinced the Brits talk about the weather so much because it makes no sense and all and sundry are constantly baffled by it.

Anyway, here are your links and let me know what your getting up to this week!

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Garance Doré on French style.

Speaking of fashion, there has been a number of major shakeups in the industry lately. WWD has a good piece on the topic, burnout, and whether or not we have reached peak “fashion.”

Thoughts on working from a reformed overworker.

Big fan of this idea!

Number five, all the way.

Hm. Perhaps if Jeff continues to veto my desire for a partially shaved head a la Natalie Dormer, this will be deemed acceptable?

Well, let’s face it, this is a holiday necessity!

NaNoWriMo returns! Know anyone who’s doing it?

Saying no. Brilliantly.

We few, we happy few, we band of brothers

Costume designs behind my beloved Miss Fisher’s Murder Mysteries.

A surprisingly great read about a lesser known part of the postal service.

Answering the siren call of David Suchet

Oh, I love London Society! It is entirely composed now of beautiful idiots and brilliant lunatics. Just what Society should be.
–Oscar Wilde

The conversation that led to this adventure, almost verbatim:

Me: “David Suchet is in the Importance of Being Earnest, in drag, as Lady Bracknell. I’m not so much asking for permission to buy tickets…as telling you that we’re going.”
Jeff: “Obviously.”

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Excuse the hilarious faux-fashion shot (stolen from Jeff’s Instagram) but I finally got the chance to break in my kimono evening jacket after scoring it for a bargain when good-luck-charm Caitlin was in town, and it was an event that needed to be documented.

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And if ever there was a night for pink suede stilettos, Oscare Wilde calls for it, I feel.

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Beloved in this household as the definitive Agatha Christie’s Poirot, the guy has some serious comedy chops. It’s impossible to leave an Oscar Wilde production feeling glum, but on this occasion we downright laughed ourselves silly and left in a good mood to forage up some dinner. Happily we quite literally stumbled upon Sticks’n’Sushi in Covent Garden, who proceeded to put a dent in our wallets because the food was so darn good that we couldn’t stop ordering it.

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In a final burst of hedonism, we went for their combo deserts which I cannot recommend enough. The “black” box (as opposed to the “white”) was particularly delicious, but scarfed down my bergamot creme brulee with the most enjoyment.

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Weekend Links

“I would rather sit on a pumpkin, and have it all to myself, than be crowded on a velvet cushion.”
― Henry David Thoreau

Bit of an odd week with a loss in the family, the return of chronic sleeplessness, and battling the office cold. By Friday afternoon I felt I wasn’t even able to string sentences together coherently and (taking the advice of a co-worker) got permission to leave work a bit early and go home and to bed. Since my stress is usually proportional to how ordered my life is, I took the weekend to clean the house, do almost all our laundry, switch out my summer clothes for my cold weather ones, and do some proper food shopping and prep–all interspersed with copious amounts of internet-based time wasting and some just plain rest. The big news is that I finally managed to read the September issues of my magazines…which I hadn’t been able to touch until now.

Two days later I’m feeling recharged, just in time for Monday to hit. Luckily work is getting more balanced with the help of a lovely assistant I hired two weeks ago, and an interim sales manager who has seized the reins of her department with well-manicured and fabulously capable hands.

Here are your links, and tell me what’s happening in your worlds, kittens.

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Who’s afraid of the driverless car?

How does your ideal afterlife look to your personality type? (They nailed mine, ENTJ.)

Hilary scrunchies!

Punny Halloween costumes.

Practical answers to the existential headline question, “What is the point of a pug?”

Interesting look at Uniqlo, a brand I knew nothing about until I moved abroad but use as a go-to spot for jumpers.

An interview about the editor of Cosmo Middle East, being the editor of Cosmo Middle East. More fraught and interesting than I even suspected.

Well, this is right up my alley.

To make you (and me) think.

Took a page from Into the Gloss this week, and deep cleaned both my face and my house simultaneously, mud masks featured heavily.

Weekend Links

“Don’t mistake activity with achievement.”
― John Wooden

Er…let’s pretend it’s still the weekend, yes? *scurries away in shame. 

Proof of work? Slash existence?
Proof of work? Slash existence?

Great piece of lesser-known history, h/t to Planes, Trains, and Plantagenets.

Sexual politics and tea drinking in the early modern world. Read for the title alone!

Posters on book care.

Food for thought. You can’t be what you can’t see. (h/t Katarina)

Speakeasy bookstore. Repeat, speakeasy bookstore!

Massive language warning but this site is hilarious and this telling of the legend of Sir Gawain and Lady Ragnell in particular made me snort laugh.

How much does it take to train a ballerina?

I repeat my oft made cry…how do we misplace these things?!

Trigger warning, this article speaks bluntly about what abortion providers witnessed before and after Roe v. Wade. May be hard reading, but important to conversations about the subject.

Books for people who love the movie Clue. Shall we meet over there, kittens?

Tumblr find of the week, with another h/t to Katarina who was on fire with the links this sen’night.

Second language warning but amazing. Straight up amazing.

Weekend Links

“If you had to identify, in one word, the reason why the human race has not achieved, and never will achieve, its full potential, that word would be ‘meetings.”
― Dave Barry

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It’s a working weekend at SDS Headquarters, so enjoy some quick reading for the nice weather while I try to make troublesome remote email systems function properly.

Well, that’s just great

Really want this to happen, in both directions.

Relevant to my interests!

In religious feminism news

YOU GUYS! Minions assemble!

I think it’s hilarious how many stereotypes exist about the British aristocracy, specifically those of stuffiness. Clearly no one who thinks that has heard of the 18th century, or the Earls of Shaftesbury.

Where once I was an interiors and design newbie…I am still an interiors and design newbie. But now with expensive taste and a growing knowledge of the international industry! And it’s pretty.

More podcasts for your delectation.

In case you were wondering, I still love Miss Fisher’s Murder Mysteries. Please more people watch it so we can have long email and twitter discussions like this about it?

Hurray, America?

Get the J Crew look for S/S 2016 here.

And finally, some shopping. If you’re looking for some colourful basics, I stumbled into this online retailer this week and have been eyeing a few tops ever since.

Dublin Pt. 2

“My heart is quite calm now. I will go back.”
― James Joyce, A Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man

We only had two days to enjoy it, but we rung a lot of pleasure out of 48 hours in Dublin.

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We ate at pubs specialising in traditional music (referred to as “trad”), and wandered Temple Bar following the sound of fiddles.

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We stumbled upon hidden gems. Outside of Queen of Tarts we found a very small market where I fell in desperate love with a stall that sells old maps and reproductions with an appropriate name and signage…

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When not at Cow’s Lane, he’s found just outside St. Patrick’s Cathedral. Which is great because I walked away from a glorious reproduction map of an late 19th, early 20th century publication detailing “Dublin’s Greatest Evil” and marks every then-operating pub in the city. I immediately regretted this decision and so when we quite literally stumbled upon the seller again in another part of the city, I parted with some euros gladly.

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Even better, we happened to be in town on the right day to enjoy a once-a-month flea market that I fully intend on going back to enjoy someday because it was stuffed with treasure. London is great for antique or vintage shopping but it can get pricey really quickly. This place by comparison had some really good deals and I had to restrain myself from making furniture purchases because at the end of the day, we still live in a shoebox. But someday…

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The market has an indoor space as well for food, books, prints, and collectibles that was also great to explore. Dogs were everywhere which on the one hand was a lot of fun and on the other, exacerbated our puppy lust something fierce.

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48 hours flew by and Kelsey and Cody had to jet off to the Isle of Man to enjoy the grand prix (as one does, darling), but we naturally had to first repair to safe ground for a fortifying snack pre-flight…

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Before catching a flight a la James Bond, by walking out on the tarmac. In the still (not to harp on this, but seriously) gorgeous weather.

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We’re planning a return trip, obviously.

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Dublin Pt. 1

“…I live in Ireland every day in a drizzly dream of a Dublin walk…”
― John Geddes, A Familiar Rain

The one thing Jeff and I are constantly berating ourselves for is the fact that we live in one of the major international travel hubs of the world, and yet we do not do a fraction of the traveling we should. Even within the UK there are countless adventures to be had, and yet we find ourselves pretty London-focused. This isn’t a bad thing, it’s a fabulous city, but it’s pretty shameful how little we get out of it.

Speaking frankly, for the first year and a half, this was largely down to finances and the constraints of freelance life. Despite that I was growing as a freelancer almost exponentially year to year, the currency conversion was backbreaking and I didn’t feel I could take a break. Meanwhile Jeff was putting in the first two years of his career with all the hours that implies. However in the past year, with new opportunities and smarter time management, many of those constraints have lifted and we’re now trying to make a conscious effort to travel more. After all, it’s one of the reasons we moved here!

A few months ago (I am shamefully behind…) one of my friends from university emailed me to say she and her husband were making plans to come to Europe and did we want to meet in Dublin? Did we! It took some coordination but we made it happen. On a side note, these friends succeed where we fail, they make it a priority to go on a trip at least once a year and have an adventure. We’re hoping to arrange a couple of future ones together because we had an absolute blast. Recapping on the flight home, Jeff and I got to talking and realised that almost all of the travel we have done in our lives has been with family–which is wonderful and I wouldn’t put it down for the world. But there was something so enjoyable about going on a trip with friends and we were glad to discover the pleasure of it. There was no “character building” to be done, or educationally required stops to make, we simply decided to enjoy the city in good company. While eating as much food as we possibly could.

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I’ve made an art of the travel capsule wardrobe. You are looking at the sum total of what I took with me and I felt downright smug about it until I caught glimpse of my travel partner on the train platform…

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Because Jeff was his irritatingly well-put-together self on just as little gear as I packed. The man is stylish, but infuriating in said stylishness.

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Somehow, the weather gods were with us. I have no idea how we lucked into such a gorgeous spring weekend, but it only rained once and that was while we were snug in a Spanish restaurant eating tapas.

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Seriously. The weather was freaky it was so lovely.

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Kelsey and I actually first met on a study abroad program at university and our first leg of that program was a week in Ireland. It was a delight to return to a place where we had made so many good memories, with a couple of good looking gents in tow who were enjoying it for the first time. Our first stop for food was the famous Queen of Tarts, which you must go to if you are ever in need of a munch whilst in Dublin. It’s a gem of a place and the food is seriously impressive. Cardamon cinnamon rolls, guys, just saying.

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Dublin is a very small city, but unlike many places in Europe, it’s remain largely untouched by the ravages of two world wars. Which is not in the least to say that it hasn’t had its share of troubles as a nation, but much of that history has remained available to view. Medieval, Georgian, Victorian, and modern architecture and design all live side by side and give you a sense of the depth of the past of the city.

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Again, the weather. Frightening in its unrelenting goodness! Kelsey and I dragged the boys around Trinity College simply for the sheer joy of walking the grounds in the sunlight.

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Dublin is a fabulous city for pedestrians, there is absolutely no need for public transport, which is something to take advantage of.

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One of the places we traveled in Ireland was the Dingle Peninsula, famed for its traditional music and use of gaelic, and the home of Murphy’s Ice Cream. The ice cream is made from the milk of a cow breed from the peninsula and found no where else in the world (according to Murphy’s there are fewer of this type of cow than pandas left in the wild), fed on Dingle grass, and raised by Dingle farmers. The flavours include “brown bread” and “sea salt” (made from Dingle salt, of course), and all of them are delightfully unexpected and lovely. Kelsey, doing her research, discovered that since we were last in Dublin, Murphy’s had opened a shop, one of only four in the world, and naturally we had to insist on a visit. The guys had no complaints.

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Weekend Links

“If change doesn’t hurt a little, it’s not change. You have to go beyond where you’re comfortable, or you’re not progressing.”
― Aliza Licht, Leave Your Mark: Land Your Dream Job. Kill It in Your Career. Rock Social Media.

This week I hired an assistant for my department, which is odd because it’s only been 11 months since I joined my company. But with my manager’s appropriately and necessary quick departure to support her family, I simply needed help and I’m grateful my bosses allowed and helped me to jump on that need so quickly. Now I get to learn how to people manage. Quickly. Eeps.

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Not only is this the headline of the week…I also think it may be a metaphor for certain aspects of American culture.

That last link was added to the role call before the most recent shooting tragedy. How many more times is the president (now and future) going to have to give this speech? And for a brief spark of good news in the midst of bad, this guy.

Dive in!

Because who can resist clickbait?

Attagirl.

It’s the witching season, and I love podcasts, so here’s a link appropriate to both those facts. Seriously, I almost never listen to music, something that causes Jeff some grief.

Found this piece on age, memory and invention touching.

Spoilers.

Great link about an age when fashion was female dominated (because fun fact, most of the major couturiers are male…but twas not always so).

An ode to the black turtleneck. Because in addition to witching season, it’s sweater weather.

The latest 100 Years of… video from Mode is perfectly lovely.

I’ve been thinking more about self-care recently and how I can do better about it. It’s something I’m historically bad at, but I think I’ve learned a lot about stress management this past year in particular and they have been good lessons to learn.

Weekend Links

“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.”
― Helen Keller, The Open Door

Crushing week, to be honest, and another one about to start. My manager, a woman who I admire fiercely and enjoy knowing both personally and professionally, had to step away from work very suddenly to cope with a sudden health crisis in her family. This past week I learned she will not be returning, at least not for a long while. I’m sorry, sad, a not a little tired from trying to step in a step up on our department’s workload. Here are some weeks, beloved kittens, but you’ll forgive me if I don’t stay to chat about them, as a new work week looms and I still need another nap.

But when will he run for student class president?

Why leaving a religion is so rough.

Hideous story, but important. We can’t look the other way.

Read up, kids!

I am a big fan of the pope, but found this too silly not to share.

Does what it says on the tin.

Don’t like her dad, pretty impressed with her.

Nero’s house of crazy!

We’re moving into the witching time of year, so this New Yorker piece on the Salem witch trials is both great and seasonally appropriate!

I’m not sure there’s much more to say than the headline here, but go for it.